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&nbsp; &nbsp;As we close out Mental Health Awareness Month, I want to remind you all that we created Club Lilles so that you can feel loved and supported. You are not alone, we are here with you!Thank you to all who attended the Speed Friending Event this month! 50% of the proceeds ($115) are going to the Trevor Project. As we head into pride month, we feel it's important to remember that mental health awareness should always be a thing, especially in the LGBTQ-plus community. That is why during the month of June we are donating 25% of the proceeds from our new <a data-mce-href="https://clublilles.myshopify.com/" href="https://clublilles.myshopify.com/">Lilles PRIDE Gear line</a> to <a data-mce-href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/" href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/">The Trevor Project</a>.&nbsp;During the month of June, you can expect education about the LGBTQ community, Pride Month, and the fight for our rights, which has been going on for many years. We will share that here, as well as in the group. Pride month is more than rainbow gear, parades, and parties. It is about celebrating our freedom to be who we are!<figure id="figure-zp2wae9boklwtfjc31"><img id="zp2wae9boklwtfjc31" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/06TyOXVbNo17YKl6jhUdMxqk2HHgs3E4AwiAimV6PLAYRNlk7FHXWihzO3S8nWhT.png" alt="person using laptop computer" title="person using laptop computer" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/06TyOXVbNo17YKl6jhUdMxqk2HHgs3E4AwiAimV6PLAYRNlk7FHXWihzO3S8nWhT.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Who's Who in the Community: Harvey MilkHarvey Milk was the first openly gay politician to be elected in California. He served almost eleven months in office before being assassinated. During his time in office, he sponsored a bill banning discrimination in public accommodations, housing and employment on the basis of sexual orientation.<figure id="figure-ety5r3vgolwtfjyu6"><img id="ety5r3vgolwtfjyu6" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1cSfjDJT4GHykeyYQPS10NXWztEWaIzZYdu83ybSQmuOvUD3HY5XbFozl4mSQQRx.jpg" alt="harvey Milk" title="harvey Milk" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1cSfjDJT4GHykeyYQPS10NXWztEWaIzZYdu83ybSQmuOvUD3HY5XbFozl4mSQQRx.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>When he first started being active in politics, he challenged the city’s gay leadership stating they were too conservative in attempting to gain political rights for homosexuals. He clashed with Jim Foster who had been active in gay politics for 10 years and refused to endorse Milk. His passion and drive to make change in politics earned him the support of many gay bar owners who had become frustrated by the lack of support in dealing with police harassment.&nbsp;Milk became an icon and martyr in the gay community and was posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2009.Lilles Love Stories: The&nbsp; Story of Anna &amp; Jenna!<figure id="figure-xj9ymhretalwtfljq5"><img id="xj9ymhretalwtfljq5" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/60Dqq4rJJtTvtwny38nRozZnM19SHj1QPrwRoUeDZH7Gbixd1ea289ETUlZmNodo.jpg" alt="club lilles" title="club lilles" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/60Dqq4rJJtTvtwny38nRozZnM19SHj1QPrwRoUeDZH7Gbixd1ea289ETUlZmNodo.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>"Jenna &amp; I both had a rough year in 2022 and were ready to meet new people through Lilles. There was an Atlanta area meet up and I messaged asking if anyone wanted to carpool and then join me for speed dating at MSR later that night. Jenna said that she would love to carpool &amp; go speed dating. We started texting and there was an instant connection. She was a little flirty so I was excited to meet her in person. She picked me up from my house and we hit it off. Everyone at the meet-up thought we were already dating. Later that night we went to speed dating together, but really only wanted to talk to each other. She invited me over to her house on Sunday for dinner. She made me one of my favorites, pasta carbonara, and it was so good! We were rarely apart after that. We felt so comfortable with each other and before we knew it, we had fallen in love &nbsp; We are so grateful to Jaime and Club Lilles for creating a safe space for later-in-life lesbians and ultimately introducing us to our forever person! Jenna and I bought a house in May 2023 and got engaged in August 2023 at Chateau Elan. We decided to go ahead and have a legal ceremony at the courthouse since we were starting our fertility journey. We will have a private wedding ceremony in Mexico on our 1 year anniversary, 8/24/24, and a small reception in November.Thank you Lilles!"Happy Pride Month everyone! Let's stay safe and remember that you always have support and community within Club Lilles!&nbsp;

Pride Month is Almost Here!

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Coming out is a deeply personal journey that can be both liberating and challenging. Having a support system is crucial during this time, as it can provide emotional comfort, practical advice, and a sense of belonging. With it being Mental Health Awareness Month, we wanted to share ways to find support if you need it.Here are some key support systems and resources for those navigating the coming-out process: Friends and Family Close Friends: Sharing your experience with trusted friends can offer immediate emotional support and validation. Family Members: If you have supportive family members, they can provide a stable and understanding environment. However, it’s important to gauge their potential reactions and approach the conversation thoughtfully. LGBTQ+ Support Groups Local LGBTQ+ Centers: Many cities have community centers that offer support groups, counseling, and resources specifically for LGBTQ+ individuals. Online Communities: Websites and forums like Reddit, TrevorSpace, and various Facebook groups like Club Lilles, can connect you with others who share similar experiences, offering advice and solidarity. Professional Support Therapists and Counselors: Seeking professional help from LGBTQ+ friendly therapists can provide a safe space to explore your feelings and develop coping strategies. Hotlines and Helplines: Services like <a data-mce-href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/" href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/">The Trevor Project </a>(1-866-488-7386) offer immediate support from trained counselors for LGBTQ+ youth. Educational Resources Books and Articles: Reading about others' coming-out stories can provide insight and reassurance. Recommended books include <a data-mce-href="https://clublilles.com/blog/perfectly-queer-author-bio--jillian-abby" href="https://clublilles.com/blog/perfectly-queer-author-bio--jillian-abby">"Perfectly Queer" by Jillian Abby</a> and "Odd Girl Out: An Autobiography" by Ann Bannon. Online Resources: Websites like GLAAD and PFLAG offer comprehensive guides and advice for those coming out, as well as for their allies. Safe Spaces Community Events: Participating in LGBTQ+ events, such as Pride parades, can foster a sense of community and acceptance. Remember, coming out is a unique journey, and it’s important to go at your own pace. Surround yourself with supportive people and utilize the resources available to ensure you feel safe, respected, and understood.This month in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, 50% of the proceeds from our <a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/895514266277?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/895514266277?aff=oddtdtcreator">Club Lilles Sapphic Soiree Speed Friending event</a> will be donated to The Trevor Project. Now more than ever, we need to take care of and support one another! Register for the event here: <a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/895514266277?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/895514266277?aff=oddtdtcreator" data-mce-selected="inline-boundary">Click Here!</a><figure id="figure-jyfvb11b5clwi7d3f5"><img id="jyfvb11b5clwi7d3f5" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/3ahe9r1nwd443jdOoSNYdj9fCdkGEwYU8rrEjsgu3QfbHrifzeJPOEsF4TVxN8VL.png" alt="Club Lilles, The Trevor Project, Mental Health Awareness Month, Jaime Messina, Lesbians, Speed Friending " title="Club Lilles, The Trevor Project, Mental Health Awareness Month, Jaime Messina, Lesbians, Speed Friending " class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/3ahe9r1nwd443jdOoSNYdj9fCdkGEwYU8rrEjsgu3QfbHrifzeJPOEsF4TVxN8VL.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>

Support Systems and Resources for Those Coming Out

<figure id="figure-gd94ijmdtilwfincqo" class="selected"><img id="gd94ijmdtilwfincqo" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/10MXMZt6KDwNjgezfeGClz00cDsqZxJ0VEvAHmF1opQyOacto6PfA5cYYenMXiw1.jpg" alt="Perfectly Queer, Jillian Abby, Club Lilles, Lesbian, Lesbian authors " title="Perfectly Queer, Jillian Abby, Club Lilles, Lesbian, Lesbian authors " class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 35%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="35%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/10MXMZt6KDwNjgezfeGClz00cDsqZxJ0VEvAHmF1opQyOacto6PfA5cYYenMXiw1.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 35%;"></figure>Author Bio: Jillian AbbyFrom CPA, to licensed massage therapist, to homeschooling mom, to craft beer bar owner, to author, corporate storyteller and LGBTQ+ advocate– Jillian Abby is no stranger to making major life changes in pursuit of the most fulfilling life. Her path took her from Buffalo, to Bolivia, to Boston and beyond only for her to learn one key lesson: finding alignment and fulfillment is an inside job. Her debut memoir, Perfectly Queer (Hay House 2023), was released worldwide and hit #1 on Amazon’s new releases for LGBTQ Memoirs and Biographies. It was included on Good Morning America’s list of 15 delightful books perfect for spring reading, Wondermind’s 13 Books by LGBTQ+ Authors that Feel Like Therapy and Penguin Random House’s 2023 list of Pride In Your Words: Memoirs that Give Voice to the Queer Experience.Jillian Abby is a motivational speaker, writing coach and ghostwriter for thought-leaders through her business, Storyteller Soul, LLC. You can find more of her quirky storytelling at <a data-mce-href="https://jillianabby.substack.com/archive" href="https://jillianabby.substack.com/archive">Reframe with Jillian Abby on Substack</a>. She lives in Tampa, Florida with her wife, Jen, their two wacky and wonderful children, a rescue cat named Poe and a three-legged dog named Lava.<img id="ayrok3pduflwfisqss" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2c7lfjh0g8v6N7XsshmCf2CaDBinh9KcRQ0KQn2ZMfu83DjC9gRITCsEZGXjW5yd.png" alt="Perfectly Queer, Jillian Abby, Club Lilles, Lesbian, Lesbian authors " title="Perfectly Queer, Jillian Abby, Club Lilles, Lesbian, Lesbian authors " class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="Get Your Copy Of Perfectly Queer" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="55%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2c7lfjh0g8v6N7XsshmCf2CaDBinh9KcRQ0KQn2ZMfu83DjC9gRITCsEZGXjW5yd.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 55%;" style="font-family: var(--body-fontFamily); font-size: calc(18px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); font-weight: var(--body-fontWeight, 400); aspect-ratio: 16 / 9; object-position: 50% 55%;"><figure id="figure-ayrok3pduflwfisqss"><figcaption class="body-normal text-gray-500 mt-2">Order Your Copy Of Perfectly Queer: <a data-mce-href="https://amzn.to/3WRpi7K" href="https://amzn.to/3WRpi7K">Click Here!</a></figcaption></figure>

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Each year, Lesbian Visibility Week offers a powerful reminder of the importance of recognizing and celebrating the diverse experiences of lesbian women worldwide. This week, typically observed in the last week of April, serves as a vital platform for raising awareness, fostering inclusivity, and empowering the lesbian community.The Significance of Lesbian Visibility WeekLesbian Visibility Week is more than just a time for celebration; it's a call to action. It emphasizes the need for greater representation of lesbian women in all spheres of life, from media and politics to education and the workplace. Visibility matters because it helps to break down stereotypes, combat discrimination, and create a world where everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, feels seen and valued.History and Origins The roots of Lesbian Visibility Week can be traced back to various grassroots movements and advocacy efforts aimed at highlighting the unique challenges faced by lesbian women. Over time, these efforts coalesced into a dedicated week of recognition, supported by organizations, activists, and allies. The goal is simple yet profound: to ensure that lesbian women are visible, their voices heard, and their contributions acknowledged.Why Visibility Matters Visibility has the power to transform lives. For many lesbian women, seeing themselves represented positively in media, culture, and society can be incredibly affirming. It helps to build a sense of belonging and community, reducing feelings of isolation and marginalization. Additionally, visibility plays a crucial role in educating others, fostering empathy, and promoting acceptance.How to Celebrate Lesbian Visibility WeekI had personally had the opportunity to celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week with three successful Club Lilles lesbian memoirists: <a data-mce-href="https://clublilles.com/blog/perfectly-queer-author-bio--jillian-abby" href="https://clublilles.com/blog/perfectly-queer-author-bio--jillian-abby" title="author Jillian Abby">Jillian Abby</a>, Jen Berlingo, and Melissa Giberson about their journeys.&nbsp;Check it out here<figure id="figure-0ic0crnislwfif0ar"><iframe id="0ic0crnislwfif0ar" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/DrXl-06apCA" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/DrXl-06apCA?si=mDZVkXSlENqxgMgx" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/DrXl-06apCA" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure> There are many ways to celebrate and support Lesbian Visibility Week:Educate Yourself and Others: Learn about the history, challenges, and achievements of the lesbian community. Share this knowledge with friends, family, and colleagues.Support Lesbian Creators and Businesses: Whether it's through reading books, watching films, or buying products created by lesbian women, supporting their work is a direct way to enhance visibility. Attend Events: Many communities and organizations host events during this week, including panel discussions, film screenings, and social gatherings. Participating in these events can be both educational and empowering. Advocate for Inclusivity: Work towards creating inclusive environments in your workplace, school, or community. Advocate for policies that support and protect the rights of lesbian women. Share on Social Media: Use your platforms to amplify the voices of lesbian women. Share stories, quotes, and resources to spread awareness and celebrate the community. Moving Forward As we celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week, it's essential to remember that visibility is just the beginning. Continued efforts are needed to ensure that lesbian women are not only seen but also respected, valued, and supported in all areas of life. By coming together as a community and as allies, we can create a world where love and authenticity thrive.Lesbian Visibility Week is a reminder of the strength and resilience of lesbian women everywhere. It's a celebration of love in all its forms and a commitment to a future where everyone can live openly and proudly.

Celebrating Lesbian Visibility Week: Embracing Love, Empowerment, and Community

Hey there friends!Big news coming your way! Our favorite safe haven, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles" data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles">Club LILLES</a>, is hitting the headlines for all the right reasons! This time, it's about digging deep and bringing to light the <a data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam">real stories of the LGBTQ+ community in healthcare settings</a>, with Jaime Messina leading the charge alongside a brilliant team of researchers.<a data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam">Club Lilles and LGBTQ+ Research</a>Meet the Fab Four Behind the ResearchWe've got the fab four — Amie Koch, Maya Rabins, Jaime Messina, and Jill Brennan-Cook — teaming up to bring us a research piece that's all heart. Jaime, one of the cool people behind Club Lilles, brought that warm and vibrant Lilles spirit right into this project.What's the Buzz?So, what's it all about, you ask? Picture this — 375 brave souls from the LGBTQ+ family sharing their healthcare stories, their fears, and their triumphs, painting a picture of what it's really like to "come out" in a healthcare setting.<a data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam">The Real Talk on Healthcare﻿</a>These real, raw stories show the mixed bag of experiences people have faced. Yeah, it's tough, with fears of being judged or not accepted, but guess what? There are those cool healthcare peeps who totally get it and offer a kind, understanding ear. It's all about the vibes, isn't it?Jaime and the team are here to tell the world that hey, it’s totally cool to be yourself, and healthcare providers should be your go-to people, your allies, your friends!Club Lilles Says: Let’s Do This, Together!Club Lilles isn't just about the party — it's about community, understanding, and really, truly seeing each other for who we are. This study is a loud shoutout to everyone, saying "We're here, we're fabulous, and we deserve to be treated with respect and understanding, especially when it comes to healthcare!”Be Part of The ChangeSo, here’s the big call-out to all the healthcare providers and to all of us — let's be the change, let's be the safe space people need. Club Lilles is doing it, Jaime is doing it, and now it’s your turn to carry that flag of love, respect, and understanding forward.Hop over to Club Lilles and be a part of this rainbow revolution that stands for more than just a good time — it's about standing tall, being proud, and shouting from the rooftops that love wins, every single time.Read the article <a href="Club Lilles Backs A Heartfelt Research Dive into LGBTQ+ Health Stories" data-mce-href="Club Lilles Backs A Heartfelt Research Dive into LGBTQ+ Health Stories">here!&nbsp;</a><blockquote><div dir="ltr"><div align="center"><div><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="left" valign="top" width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="center" valign="top" width="100%"><a href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1694994268313000&amp;usg=AOvVaw3c-bOfem4zPvQ-tjnNfhlx" data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam">https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam</a></td></tr></tbody></table></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div dir="ltr"><div align="center"><div><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="left" valign="top" width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="center" valign="top" width="100%"> </td></tr></tbody></table></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div></blockquote>

Club Lilles Backs A Heartfelt Research Dive into LGBTQ+ Health Stories

Planning a date night can be exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. Whether you've been together for years or are just starting out, finding the perfect date idea can make all the difference. If you're a mature lesbian looking to break the ice and have some fun, we've got you covered. Check out these date night ideas that combine fun with getting to know each other.<h2>1. Wine Tasting Adventure</h2>Indulge in a wine tasting adventure and explore different flavors together. Visit a local winery or attend a wine tasting event in your area. Sip on exquisite wines, learn about the winemaking process, and engage in meaningful conversations about your favorite flavors. It's a great way to bond and discover new wines that you both enjoy.<figure id="figure-ka9jypz4kjlmzbmfzw"><img id="ka9jypz4kjlmzbmfzw" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1585803085621-7eea6581caec?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzfHx3aW5lJTIwdGFzdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI0OTZ8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="wine tasting" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1585803085621-7eea6581caec?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzfHx3aW5lJTIwdGFzdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI0OTZ8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>2. Cooking Class</h2>Get hands-on in the kitchen and take a cooking class together. Whether you're both seasoned chefs or beginners, learning new recipes and techniques can be a fun and interactive experience. Choose a cuisine you both love or try something completely new. Not only will you create delicious dishes, but you'll also create lasting memories.<figure id="figure-td43xblq7slmzbmhg2"><img id="td43xblq7slmzbmhg2" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1447279506476-3faec8071eee?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwyMHx8Y29va2luZyUyMGNsYXNzfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjQ5OHww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="cooking class" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1447279506476-3faec8071eee?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwyMHx8Y29va2luZyUyMGNsYXNzfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjQ5OHww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>3. Outdoor Picnic</h2>Enjoy the beauty of nature with a romantic outdoor picnic. Find a picturesque spot in a park or by the beach, lay out a blanket, and pack a delicious spread of your favorite foods. Take a leisurely stroll, hold hands, and have intimate conversations while enjoying the fresh air and scenery.<figure id="figure-odd22wdj9lmzbmjmk"><img id="odd22wdj9lmzbmjmk" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1595037935521-15ce2282a03e?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHxvdXRkb29yJTIwcGljbmljfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwMXww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="outdoor picnic" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1595037935521-15ce2282a03e?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHxvdXRkb29yJTIwcGljbmljfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwMXww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>4. Art Gallery Visit</h2>Explore your artistic side by visiting an art gallery or museum. Admire beautiful paintings, sculptures, and installations while discussing your interpretations and feelings about the artwork. It's a great way to connect on a deeper level and appreciate the beauty of creativity together.<figure id="figure-dqvu13xjaglmzbmlg6"><img id="dqvu13xjaglmzbmlg6" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1606819717115-9159c900370b?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw5fHxhcnQlMjBnYWxsZXJ5fGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwM3ww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="art gallery" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1606819717115-9159c900370b?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw5fHxhcnQlMjBnYWxsZXJ5fGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwM3ww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>5. Movie Night Under the Stars</h2>Create a cozy outdoor movie night by setting up a projector in your backyard or a nearby park. Snuggle up with blankets and pillows, and enjoy your favorite films under the stars. Don't forget the popcorn and some sweet treats to make it a truly magical experience.<figure id="figure-xfcimjq5walmzbmm1y"><img id="xfcimjq5walmzbmm1y" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1518134346374-184f9d21cea2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8b3V0ZG9vciUyMG1vdmllJTIwbmlnaHR8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTA0fDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="outdoor movie night" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1518134346374-184f9d21cea2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8b3V0ZG9vciUyMG1vdmllJTIwbmlnaHR8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTA0fDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>6. Bookstore Adventure</h2>Embark on a bookstore adventure and explore the shelves together. Browse through different genres, recommend books to each other, and discuss your favorite authors. You can even pick a book for each other to read and have a mini book club discussion on your next date.<figure id="figure-rel30ffkklmzbmnst"><img id="rel30ffkklmzbmnst" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1601469090980-fc95e8d95544?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMnx8Ym9va3N0b3JlfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY0NTU5Mnww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="bookstore" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1601469090980-fc95e8d95544?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMnx8Ym9va3N0b3JlfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY0NTU5Mnww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>7. Dance Class</h2>Put on your dancing shoes and take a dance class together. Whether it's salsa, ballroom, or even a fun hip-hop class, dancing can be a great way to let loose and have some laughs. You'll learn new moves, enjoy each other's company, and maybe even discover a hidden talent.<figure id="figure-w1bpsprzvjlmzbmpa3"><img id="w1bpsprzvjlmzbmpa3" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1546427660-eb346c344ba5?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8ZGFuY2UlMjBjbGFzc3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI1MDh8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="dance class" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1546427660-eb346c344ba5?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8ZGFuY2UlMjBjbGFzc3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI1MDh8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>8. Volunteer Together</h2>Make a difference in your community by volunteering together. Find a cause that resonates with both of you and dedicate some time to help out. Whether it's at an animal shelter, a food bank, or a local charity, working together for a greater good can strengthen your bond and create meaningful memories.<figure id="figure-p3hgy74birlmzbmqlm"><img id="p3hgy74birlmzbmqlm" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1513477967668-2aaf11838bd6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw1fHx2b2x1bnRlZXJ8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTEwfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="volunteer" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1513477967668-2aaf11838bd6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw1fHx2b2x1bnRlZXJ8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTEwfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure>Remember, the key to a successful date night is to have fun and be open to new experiences. Choose activities that allow you to connect on a deeper level and create lasting memories. So go ahead, plan your next date night and break the ice with these mature lesbian-friendly ideas.In the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery and embracing our true selves, the importance of community cannot be stressed enough. Club Lilles is not just a blog; it's a haven for those who have walked a similar path, offering a blend of inspiration, support, and camaraderie. If you've found value in what you've read, we encourage you to become a part of our growing family. <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles/about/" data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles/about/">Join Club Lilles</a> and stay connected with us. Because together, we're not just stronger — we're a force of nature.

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