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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">Hey there friends!</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">Big news coming your way! Our favorite safe haven, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles" data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles">Club LILLES</a>, is hitting the headlines for all the right reasons! This time, it's about digging deep and bringing to light the <a data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam">real stories of the LGBTQ+ community in healthcare settings</a>, with Jaime Messina leading the charge alongside a brilliant team of researchers.</span></p><p><a data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam"><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">Club Lilles and LGBTQ+ Research</span></a></p><p><strong>Meet the Fab Four Behind the Research</strong></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">We've got the fab four — Amie Koch, Maya Rabins, Jaime Messina, and Jill Brennan-Cook — teaming up to bring us a research piece that's all heart. Jaime, one of the cool people behind Club Lilles, brought that warm and vibrant Lilles spirit right into this project.</span></p><p><em><strong>What's the Buzz?</strong></em></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">So, what's it all about, you ask? Picture this — 375 brave souls from the LGBTQ+ family sharing their healthcare stories, their fears, and their triumphs, painting a picture of what it's really like to "come out" in a healthcare setting.</span></p><p><strong><a data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam">The Real Talk on Healthcare﻿</a></strong></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">These real, raw stories show the mixed bag of experiences people have faced. Yeah, it's tough, with fears of being judged or not accepted, but guess what? There are those cool healthcare peeps who totally get it and offer a kind, understanding ear. It's all about the vibes, isn't it?</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">Jaime and the team are here to tell the world that hey, it’s totally cool to be yourself, and healthcare providers should be your go-to people, your allies, your friends!</span></p><p><strong>Club Lilles Says: Let’s Do This, Together!</strong></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">Club Lilles isn't just about the party — it's about community, understanding, and really, truly seeing each other for who we are. This study is a loud shoutout to everyone, saying "We're here, we're fabulous, and we deserve to be treated with respect and understanding, especially when it comes to healthcare!”</span></p><p><strong>Be Part of The Change</strong></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">So, here’s the big call-out to all the healthcare providers and to all of us — let's be the change, let's be the safe space people need. Club Lilles is doing it, Jaime is doing it, and now it’s your turn to carry that flag of love, respect, and understanding forward.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">Hop over to Club Lilles and be a part of this rainbow revolution that stands for more than just a good time — it's about standing tall, being proud, and shouting from the rooftops that love wins, every single time.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;" data-mce-style="font-weight: 400;">Read the article <a href="Club Lilles Backs A Heartfelt Research Dive into LGBTQ+ Health Stories" data-mce-href="Club Lilles Backs A Heartfelt Research Dive into LGBTQ+ Health Stories">here!&nbsp;</a></span></p><blockquote><div dir="ltr"><div align="center"><div><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="left" valign="top" width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="center" valign="top" width="100%"><p><a href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1694994268313000&amp;usg=AOvVaw3c-bOfem4zPvQ-tjnNfhlx" data-mce-href="https://authors.elsevier.com/c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam">https://authors.elsevier.com/<wbr>c/1hmFt5XgHbkWam</a></p></td></tr></tbody></table></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div dir="ltr"><div align="center"><div><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" align="center" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="left" valign="top" width="100%"><table border="0" width="100%" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" bgcolor="#FFFFFF" class="mce-item-table"><tbody><tr><td align="center" valign="top" width="100%"><br></td></tr></tbody></table></td></tr></tbody></table></div></div></div></blockquote><p><br></p>

Club Lilles Backs A Heartfelt Research Dive into LGBTQ+ Health Stories

<p>Planning a date night can be exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. Whether you've been together for years or are just starting out, finding the perfect date idea can make all the difference. If you're a mature lesbian looking to break the ice and have some fun, we've got you covered. Check out these date night ideas that combine fun with getting to know each other.</p><h2>1. Wine Tasting Adventure</h2><p>Indulge in a wine tasting adventure and explore different flavors together. Visit a local winery or attend a wine tasting event in your area. Sip on exquisite wines, learn about the winemaking process, and engage in meaningful conversations about your favorite flavors. It's a great way to bond and discover new wines that you both enjoy.</p><figure id="figure-ka9jypz4kjlmzbmfzw"><img id="ka9jypz4kjlmzbmfzw" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1585803085621-7eea6581caec?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzfHx3aW5lJTIwdGFzdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI0OTZ8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="wine tasting" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1585803085621-7eea6581caec?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwzfHx3aW5lJTIwdGFzdGluZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI0OTZ8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>2. Cooking Class</h2><p>Get hands-on in the kitchen and take a cooking class together. Whether you're both seasoned chefs or beginners, learning new recipes and techniques can be a fun and interactive experience. Choose a cuisine you both love or try something completely new. Not only will you create delicious dishes, but you'll also create lasting memories.</p><figure id="figure-td43xblq7slmzbmhg2"><img id="td43xblq7slmzbmhg2" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1447279506476-3faec8071eee?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwyMHx8Y29va2luZyUyMGNsYXNzfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjQ5OHww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="cooking class" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1447279506476-3faec8071eee?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwyMHx8Y29va2luZyUyMGNsYXNzfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjQ5OHww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>3. Outdoor Picnic</h2><p>Enjoy the beauty of nature with a romantic outdoor picnic. Find a picturesque spot in a park or by the beach, lay out a blanket, and pack a delicious spread of your favorite foods. Take a leisurely stroll, hold hands, and have intimate conversations while enjoying the fresh air and scenery.</p><figure id="figure-odd22wdj9lmzbmjmk"><img id="odd22wdj9lmzbmjmk" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1595037935521-15ce2282a03e?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHxvdXRkb29yJTIwcGljbmljfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwMXww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="outdoor picnic" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1595037935521-15ce2282a03e?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHxvdXRkb29yJTIwcGljbmljfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwMXww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>4. Art Gallery Visit</h2><p>Explore your artistic side by visiting an art gallery or museum. Admire beautiful paintings, sculptures, and installations while discussing your interpretations and feelings about the artwork. It's a great way to connect on a deeper level and appreciate the beauty of creativity together.</p><figure id="figure-dqvu13xjaglmzbmlg6"><img id="dqvu13xjaglmzbmlg6" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1606819717115-9159c900370b?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw5fHxhcnQlMjBnYWxsZXJ5fGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwM3ww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="art gallery" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1606819717115-9159c900370b?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw5fHxhcnQlMjBnYWxsZXJ5fGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY3MjUwM3ww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>5. Movie Night Under the Stars</h2><p>Create a cozy outdoor movie night by setting up a projector in your backyard or a nearby park. Snuggle up with blankets and pillows, and enjoy your favorite films under the stars. Don't forget the popcorn and some sweet treats to make it a truly magical experience.</p><figure id="figure-xfcimjq5walmzbmm1y"><img id="xfcimjq5walmzbmm1y" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1518134346374-184f9d21cea2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8b3V0ZG9vciUyMG1vdmllJTIwbmlnaHR8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTA0fDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="outdoor movie night" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1518134346374-184f9d21cea2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8b3V0ZG9vciUyMG1vdmllJTIwbmlnaHR8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTA0fDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>6. Bookstore Adventure</h2><p>Embark on a bookstore adventure and explore the shelves together. Browse through different genres, recommend books to each other, and discuss your favorite authors. You can even pick a book for each other to read and have a mini book club discussion on your next date.</p><figure id="figure-rel30ffkklmzbmnst"><img id="rel30ffkklmzbmnst" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1601469090980-fc95e8d95544?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMnx8Ym9va3N0b3JlfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY0NTU5Mnww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="bookstore" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1601469090980-fc95e8d95544?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMnx8Ym9va3N0b3JlfGVufDB8fHx8MTY5NTY0NTU5Mnww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>7. Dance Class</h2><p>Put on your dancing shoes and take a dance class together. Whether it's salsa, ballroom, or even a fun hip-hop class, dancing can be a great way to let loose and have some laughs. You'll learn new moves, enjoy each other's company, and maybe even discover a hidden talent.</p><figure id="figure-w1bpsprzvjlmzbmpa3"><img id="w1bpsprzvjlmzbmpa3" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1546427660-eb346c344ba5?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8ZGFuY2UlMjBjbGFzc3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI1MDh8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="dance class" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1546427660-eb346c344ba5?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxOXx8ZGFuY2UlMjBjbGFzc3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2OTU2NzI1MDh8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><h2>8. Volunteer Together</h2><p>Make a difference in your community by volunteering together. Find a cause that resonates with both of you and dedicate some time to help out. Whether it's at an animal shelter, a food bank, or a local charity, working together for a greater good can strengthen your bond and create meaningful memories.</p><figure id="figure-p3hgy74birlmzbmqlm"><img id="p3hgy74birlmzbmqlm" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1513477967668-2aaf11838bd6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw1fHx2b2x1bnRlZXJ8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTEwfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="volunteer" class="object-cover bg-gray-100" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1513477967668-2aaf11838bd6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHw1fHx2b2x1bnRlZXJ8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjk1NjcyNTEwfDA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure><p>Remember, the key to a successful date night is to have fun and be open to new experiences. Choose activities that allow you to connect on a deeper level and create lasting memories. So go ahead, plan your next date night and break the ice with these mature lesbian-friendly ideas.</p><p>In the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery and embracing our true selves, the importance of community cannot be stressed enough. <strong>Club Lilles</strong> is not just a blog; it's a haven for those who have walked a similar path, offering a blend of inspiration, support, and camaraderie. If you've found value in what you've read, we encourage you to become a part of our growing family. <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles/about/" data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles/about/">Join Club Lilles</a> and stay connected with us. Because together, we're not just stronger — we're a force of nature.</p>

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