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African American girl is working at home with LGBTQ rainbow flag in her table for coming out of closet and pride month celebration to promote sexual diversity and equality in homosexual orientation

Coming out can be one of the most liberating yet challenging moments in your life, especially when it involves telling your spouse. If you’re in a place where you’re considering sharing your truth but feel paralyzed by fear, you’re not alone. Many of us in the <a data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles">Club LILLES</a> community have stood exactly where you are now—scared, uncertain, and questioning how to move forward. Let’s unpack this together and find a path that honors both your truth and your relationship.Acknowledge Your Fear Fear often stems from the unknown: How will they react? Will this hurt them? What happens next? These questions are valid, and it’s okay to feel scared. Start by acknowledging that fear without judgment. Journaling or talking to a trusted friend, coach, or therapist can help you explore what’s behind those emotions and what you’re truly afraid of.Get Clear on Your Why Coming out to your spouse is deeply personal, and clarity can be grounding. Ask yourself:&nbsp; Why do I want to share this now? Is it because I need to live authentically? Because keeping this secret feels like a burden? Understanding your "why" will help guide you through the conversation.Prepare with Compassion Consider how you’d like to approach this conversation. Preparation can ease some of the anxiety. Think about:Timing: Choose a moment when you can have uninterrupted time to talk. Setting: A calm, private space where both of you can feel comfortable. Words: Practice what you want to say. You might even write it down to organize your thoughts. Remember, the goal isn’t to have a perfect conversation—it’s to communicate with honesty and kindness.Anticipate Their Perspective Your spouse may have a range of emotions: confusion, sadness, anger, or even relief if they’ve sensed something was off. While you can’t control their reaction, you can approach the conversation with empathy. Acknowledge the impact this revelation might have on them, while also holding space for your own truth.Seek Support You don’t have to do this alone. Reach out to supportive friends, <a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/">coach</a>, a therapist, or even the Club LILLES community. Sharing your experience with others who understand can be incredibly empowering and healing.Embrace Patience Coming out is a process, not a one-time event. Both you and your spouse will need time to process what this means for your lives. Be patient with yourself and with them. There’s no “right” way this has to unfold.Honor Yourself Ultimately, your journey is about stepping into your truth and living authentically. That takes tremendous courage. No matter how the conversation goes, remember that you are worthy of love, respect, and a life that reflects who you truly are.You’re Not Alone The Club LILLES community was built to be a safe space for moments exactly like this. Whether you’re looking for advice, support, or just a listening ear, we’re here for you. Coming out is a deeply personal act, but it doesn’t have to be a lonely one.If you’ve been through this experience, what advice would you share with someone preparing to come out to their spouse? Drop your insights in the comments—let’s keep this conversation going and support one another every step of the way.You’ve got this.&nbsp;

Coming Out to Your Spouse: Facing Fear with Courage and Compassion

Top view of a a heart shape of people, showing unity and teamwork

There’s something magical about feeling like you’ve found your people. A space where you can show up as your whole self—unfiltered, unapologetic, and fully accepted. But for many of us, finding that sense of belonging doesn’t always come easily. Whether you’re starting fresh after a big life transition, stepping into your authentic self, or just realizing you’ve outgrown old circles, it can feel overwhelming to search for connection in a world that often feels so disconnected.Here’s the good news: you’re not alone, and there’s a community out there waiting for you. Let’s explore some ways you can take steps to find your people and feel that deep sense of belonging.<figure id="figure-ruc1eak0hm56w3o53"><img id="ruc1eak0hm56w3o53" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/251H3yXevNDJbyPW678uNzOZZwkzm8cC2LaZuyY3BbvcBn17fHQrmt3YaqsnUi5s.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/251H3yXevNDJbyPW678uNzOZZwkzm8cC2LaZuyY3BbvcBn17fHQrmt3YaqsnUi5s.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>1. Start with Self-Discovery Before finding your community, it’s essential to know what makes you you. Reflect on your values, passions, and the type of connections you’re craving. Are you seeking support for a specific part of your journey? A shared hobby? A group that understands your unique story?When you’re clear on what you’re looking for, it becomes easier to spot the spaces that align with your heart.2. Be Open to Vulnerability It’s not always easy to put yourself out there, especially if you’ve experienced rejection or judgment in the past. But meaningful connection often starts with vulnerability. Share your story. Show up authentically. People are drawn to realness, and when you’re brave enough to be yourself, you’ll naturally attract those who resonate with you.3. Seek Out Aligned Spaces Sometimes, finding your community means looking beyond what’s immediately familiar. Explore local meetups, online groups, and community organizations that align with your values and interests. For LGBTQ+ women over 55, a space like Club LILLES offers the perfect blend of connection, support, and personal growth.Our community isn’t just a place to meet people—it’s a space to thrive, learn, and feel understood. Whether you’re navigating new beginnings or simply craving meaningful friendships, Club LILLES was created for moments just like this.4. Embrace the Power of Small Steps Sometimes, finding belonging starts with a single conversation. Attend a new event. Send a message to someone whose story resonates with you. Join a discussion that speaks to your heart. Each small step builds momentum, and over time, those small steps lead to the connection you’ve been seeking.5. Prioritize Consistency Building relationships takes time. Show up consistently, even when it feels awkward or uncomfortable. Trust grows when we share experiences, celebrate wins, and navigate challenges together. The more you invest in a community, the more you’ll feel a part of it.6. Give Before You Expect to Receive One of the best ways to cultivate belonging is to contribute. Offer support. Share your wisdom. Cheer others on. When you show up for others, you create a ripple effect of kindness that comes back tenfold.The Club LILLES Difference If you’ve been searching for a community that not only understands but celebrates you, consider this your invitation to join Club LILLES. Our group is more than just a gathering place—it’s a thriving, growth-minded community where connection and empowerment go hand in hand.From meaningful conversations to resources that inspire personal growth, Club LILLES is designed for women who are ready to embrace this chapter of their lives fully. We believe in raising the standard for what it means to be part of a supportive, inclusive community—and we’d love for you to be a part of it.You Belong Here Remember, finding your community and sense of belonging is a journey, not a race. Be patient with yourself, trust the process, and stay open to the connections that come your way.And if you’re ready to step into a space where love, acceptance, and growth are at the heart of everything we do, we’re here for you. Club LILLES isn’t just a community—it’s a home.We can’t wait to welcome you.Ready to join the conversation? Connect with us today and discover what it means to truly belong. <a data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164">CLICK HERE!</a>

How to Find Your Community and Sense of Belonging

Emerald Lake with wooden cottage and snowman in falling snow at Yoho national park, Canada

<figure id="figure-sek9qyng7fm4kdf2bw"><img id="sek9qyng7fm4kdf2bw" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1884430499/photo/emerald-lake-with-wooden-cottage-and-snowman-in-falling-snow-at-yoho-national-park-canada.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-fe1xqtDRWf-kCKeNsKYOkSkWE5qQ1HXZSmo2QRwZfY=" alt="Emerald Lake with wooden cottage and snowman in falling snow at Yoho national park, Canada" title="Emerald Lake with wooden cottage and snowman in falling snow at Yoho national park, Canada" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1884430499/photo/emerald-lake-with-wooden-cottage-and-snowman-in-falling-snow-at-yoho-national-park-canada.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-fe1xqtDRWf-kCKeNsKYOkSkWE5qQ1HXZSmo2QRwZfY=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Ideas for Reaching Out and Making New Connections The holiday season can be a beautiful time of celebration and warmth, but for many of us in Club LILLES, it can also bring feelings of loneliness or isolation. Whether you’re navigating this season newly out, redefining traditions, or simply seeking deeper connections, you are not alone.Let’s explore some ways to foster connection this holiday season — with others, within our community, and most importantly, with ourselves.Host a Holiday Meetup or Virtual Chat If there’s no event on the calendar, create one! Invite Club LILLES members for a low-pressure coffee date, a casual potluck, or even a virtual chat. Sometimes, others are feeling the same way but are waiting for someone to take the first step.Idea: A “Holiday Stories Night” where everyone shares a favorite memory or tradition can foster connection and laughter.Reach Out to Someone New Take a moment to message someone in the group you haven’t connected with before. A simple, “Hey, I loved your post about [topic],” or “I’ve seen your name pop up — how are you doing this season?” can be the start of a meaningful conversation.You’d be surprised how many people are craving connection and just need that gentle invitation.Volunteer or Support a Cause Together The holidays are a wonderful time to give back, and volunteering is a fantastic way to meet people while making a difference. Partner with a Club LILLES member to support a cause close to your heart — like a local animal rescue, food bank, or community shelter.Shout-out: If you love animals, consider supporting <a data-mce-href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/" href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/">Heidi’s Legacy Dog Rescue</a> of Tampa — a cause that’s close to many of our hearts.Redefine Traditions and Make New Ones Sometimes old traditions no longer fit who we are or where we are in life. That’s okay. Give yourself permission to create new traditions that bring you joy. Invite a few friends from Club LILLES for a “Chosen Family” holiday dinner, a movie marathon, or a nature walk.Remember: Traditions are about meaning, not perfection. Whatever fills your heart is valid.Join the Conversation in Our Online Space Our online Club LILLES group is always open. Share a holiday wish, ask for support, or post something that makes you smile. Your voice matters, and you never know who might need to hear what you have to say.Try This: Post a “Holiday Connection Challenge” — invite members to comment with one thing they’re grateful for this season.Be Kind to Yourself Lastly, connection starts within. If the holidays feel overwhelming, take moments for self-care. Reflect, rest, and remind yourself that you are worthy of love and community.Know that in Club LILLES, you are seen, valued, and celebrated — just as you are.You Are Never Alone in Club LILLES This holiday season, let’s lean into the connections we have and open our hearts to new ones. We’re in this together, raising the standards for what it means to belong to a safe and thriving community.Wishing you connection, comfort, and joy — however you choose to celebrate.❤️ Your Club LILLES Community

Creating Connection During the Holidays

<figure id="figure-i2o59eomjmm4hddldl"><img id="i2o59eomjmm4hddldl" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1028749698/photo/the-acropolis-of-athens-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=Ewm_BQY187wC-uwlliibGTLkuJbRiYWOlhrUrhUks7k=" alt="The Acropolis of Athens, Greece" title="The Acropolis of Athens, Greece" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1028749698/photo/the-acropolis-of-athens-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=Ewm_BQY187wC-uwlliibGTLkuJbRiYWOlhrUrhUks7k=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Imagine standing on a rooftop in Athens, the Parthenon glowing golden under the fading light. Or picture yourself on a sun-drenched beach in Mykonos, where the sea shimmers in the distance as the sky explodes in hues of pink, gold, and lavender. But what makes these moments truly magical isn’t just the beauty of Greece — it’s the women standing beside you. Women who, just like you, crave connection, adventure, and a little magic in their lives.This is the power of traveling with a group of like-minded women like the ones in Club Lilles: sunsets become stories, and stories become the threads that weave lifelong friendships.<figure id="figure-98wl2ezhrm4hdeubn"><img id="98wl2ezhrm4hdeubn" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2ethstIPcM8IF8zlHMxyLoBFvIST5isKk4kZ3ZLMQEypL1ZW2KY3i1vCp0p06XWH.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 65%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="65%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2ethstIPcM8IF8zlHMxyLoBFvIST5isKk4kZ3ZLMQEypL1ZW2KY3i1vCp0p06XWH.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 65%;"></figure>More Than Just a Trip — It’s a Journey of Connection When you travel to Athens and Mykonos with a group of women who share your spirit of curiosity and growth, you’re not just sightseeing — you’re creating memories wrapped in laughter, vulnerability, and awe. The magic comes from knowing that the women around you are on a similar journey. You’re exploring new horizons, inside and out, together.It’s the kind of experience where:<ul><li>Conversations flow effortlessly — whether you’re exploring ancient ruins or sipping wine by the sea.</li><li>Moments of wonder are shared and understood deeply, like standing in front of the Acropolis or feeling the wind in your hair on a Mykonos boat ride.</li><li>Support surrounds you, whether you’re sharing a personal breakthrough or daring to try something new.</li></ul>Athens Sunsets and Stories: Bonding Over Timeless Beauty Athens is a city where history and modern life blend seamlessly. As the sun sets behind the Parthenon, the ancient marble glows softly, and time feels like it stands still. It’s in this golden light that stories are shared — your hopes, your challenges, your dreams.One woman might speak about her journey of self-discovery, and another might nod, eyes shimmering with understanding. These moments of openness, set against the timeless beauty of Athens, create a bond that’s hard to describe. In these quiet pauses, you realize: you’re not alone. Your experiences — your dreams, doubts, and triumphs — are seen and held in the circle of women around you.<figure id="figure-dv72e2ilhm4hdhnht"><img id="dv72e2ilhm4hdhnht" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/672664688/photo/a-view-of-mykonos-port-and-town-island-of-mykonos-cyclades-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=89WvIQdSmQClyf1lpXDZeZ1jyhllg-CrvomSGP7PcOw=" alt="A view of Mykonos port and town, island of Mykonos, Cyclades, Greece" title="A view of Mykonos port and town, island of Mykonos, Cyclades, Greece" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl selected" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/672664688/photo/a-view-of-mykonos-port-and-town-island-of-mykonos-cyclades-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=89WvIQdSmQClyf1lpXDZeZ1jyhllg-CrvomSGP7PcOw=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-mce-selected="1"></figure>Mykonos Magic: Where Laughter and Adventure Flourish Mykonos, with its white-washed buildings, winding alleys, and crystal-clear waters, is a playground of joy and adventure. Picture this: a sun-drenched day on the beach with your new sisters, where laughter echoes over the waves. Or dancing together under the stars, feeling the freedom of letting go.There’s something extraordinary about having women by your side who are open to joy, spontaneity, and shared adventure. You’ll swap stories over fresh seafood dinners, explore hidden corners of the island, and maybe even take a leap — whether it’s diving into the Aegean Sea or stepping out of your comfort zone.In Mykonos, every sunset is a celebration, every story a chance to connect, and every shared experience a spark that deepens friendships.<figure id="figure-va59kms3cam4hdijx0"><img id="va59kms3cam4hdijx0" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/13LUBxLJPIO3OE0r5jK7VICivjqJ94phFmMjqYf2IiEv0ltHWgMq1NNrBCExlUGs.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl selected" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 60%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="60%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/13LUBxLJPIO3OE0r5jK7VICivjqJ94phFmMjqYf2IiEv0ltHWgMq1NNrBCExlUGs.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 60%;"></figure>Why This Trip is a Gift to Yourself Traveling to Athens and Mykonos with like-minded women is more than just a vacation; it’s a soul-nourishing journey. It’s a chance to connect with others who get it — the need for adventure, growth, and sisterhood. It’s a beautiful reminder that magic happens when women come together, support one another, and share life’s incredible moments.The sunsets will take your breath away, but the friendships you build along the way will stay in your heart forever.So, if you’ve been longing for more than just another trip, this is your invitation. Come experience the magic of Greece — where history, beauty, and sisterhood come together in unforgettable ways.&nbsp; <a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">Ready to join us in Athens and Mykonos?</a> Pack your bags, bring your stories, and get ready for sunsets filled with magic, laughter, and sisterhood.<a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE!</a>

Sisterhood and Sunsets: How Traveling to Greece with Women Just Like You Creates Magic

Have you ever dreamed of exploring ancient ruins, relaxing by turquoise waters, and diving into a culture rich with history and flavor? Greece has a way of capturing imaginations—and for good reason. This September 2025, Club LILLES is heading there for an unforgettable adventure, and we want you to come along!Even better? For Travel Tuesday, you can save $50 on your booking when you use the code TRAVELTUESDAY50 on December 3 and 4.A Journey to Remember This trip is designed to offer the perfect blend of cultural exploration, historical discovery, and luxurious relaxation. Here’s a little taste of what’s in store:Athens: Start your journey in the cradle of civilization. Picture yourself wandering through the historic Plaka district, marveling at the Acropolis, and soaking up the vibrant energy of this iconic city. Our city tour will take you through centuries of history and culture, leaving you with memories to cherish forever.Mykonos: From lounging at lively beach clubs to indulging in culinary delights and exploring charming streets, Mykonos offers a little something for everyone. This island combines relaxation and adventure, making it the perfect complement to Athens’ historical allure.Why Travel with Club LILLES? Our trips are carefully curated for the sophisticated traveler. Whether you’re passionate about history, eager to immerse yourself in local culture, or just ready for some much-needed relaxation, this itinerary is designed with you in mind.Plus, traveling with Club LILLES means you’ll share these experiences with a group of incredible people—fellow adventurers who are just as excited as you are to explore, connect, and make memories.Don’t Miss the Travel Tuesday Deal! For December 3 and 4 only, you can save $50 on your new booking with the case-sensitive code <a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">TRAVELTUESDAY50</a>. Here’s what you need to know:Trip Dates: September 16th-22nd, 2025 Discount: $50 off with code TRAVELTUESDAY50 Booking Window: December 3–4, 2024<a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">BOOK HERE!</a> This deal is only valid for new bookings, so don’t wait too long—spots are limited, and once they’re gone, they’re gone!Let’s Make It Happen If Greece has been calling your name, this is your moment to answer. Pack your bags, grab your camera, and get ready for a journey you’ll never forget.Head over to our Greece Trip Page to book your spot and don’t forget to use the code <a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">TRAVELTUESDAY50</a> at checkout to save.I can’t wait to see you there! Let’s make this adventure one for the books.<a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" data-mce-selected="inline-boundary">CLICK HERE TO JOIN US IN GREECE!</a>

Travel Tuesday Spotlight: Your Dream Trip to Greece in September 2025

Traveling with others can be a joy in itself, but for sapphic women—women who love other women—going on adventures with people who share similar life experiences and values brings a whole new layer of connection and comfort. Traveling in a group where everyone feels understood and safe allows you to be yourself fully, creating space for positive mental health benefits and happiness that lasts. Here are three ways traveling with other sapphic women can enhance both your mental health and your joy.<figure id="figure-mcrs5zgomsm3d8kvs0"><img id="mcrs5zgomsm3d8kvs0" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/251H3yXevNDJbyPW678uNzOZZwkzm8cC2LaZuyY3BbvcBn17fHQrmt3YaqsnUi5s.jpg" alt="Close Up on Hands of a Crowd of People Clapping in Dark Conference Hall During a Motivational Keynote Presentation. Business Technology Summit Auditorium Room Full of Delegates." title="Close Up on Hands of a Crowd of People Clapping in Dark Conference Hall During a Motivational Keynote Presentation. Business Technology Summit Auditorium Room Full of Delegates." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/251H3yXevNDJbyPW678uNzOZZwkzm8cC2LaZuyY3BbvcBn17fHQrmt3YaqsnUi5s.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>1. A Safe Space for Self-Expression Traveling with other sapphic women often feels like entering a safe and accepting space. You’re surrounded by people who understand your experiences and identities without needing explanation. This sense of safety and understanding allows you to relax fully and drop any social defenses you might usually have in place. When you’re free to be yourself, you experience a sense of ease that can improve mental health by lowering stress and providing space for genuine joy.This feeling of mutual understanding creates a unique bond. You’re not only experiencing new sights and sounds but also building friendships based on shared life perspectives, humor, and values. In a world where sapphic women may not always feel fully understood or accepted, this shared experience of exploration and authenticity can be profoundly uplifting.2. Building Confidence and Encouraging Growth Traveling with other sapphic women brings a sense of collective strength. Exploring new places together can foster courage, from trying new activities like hiking or snorkeling to confidently visiting LGBTQ+ spaces in a new city. This support makes it easier to take healthy risks, which is essential for personal growth and building confidence.<a data-mce-href="https://clublilles.com/blog/meet-barb--a-story-of-firsts-in-costa-rica" href="https://clublilles.com/blog/meet-barb--a-story-of-firsts-in-costa-rica">Check out Barbs story of confidence and growth from out last trip here!</a><figure id="figure-o7n4wvyfxxm3d8mocv" class=""><img id="o7n4wvyfxxm3d8mocv" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/822zlSvVoYkfhbsAgqxmQ9A2Bjkyi67lXHS9BOj5LA1J1s6Os4j1waVaDykLsWJd.jpg" alt="Happy colleagues having a coffee break in an office" title="Happy colleagues having a coffee break in an office" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 80%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="80%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/822zlSvVoYkfhbsAgqxmQ9A2Bjkyi67lXHS9BOj5LA1J1s6Os4j1waVaDykLsWJd.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 80%;"></figure>When you feel supported, you’re more likely to embrace opportunities you might not have taken on your own. This boost in confidence not only enhances your travel experience but also fosters resilience and a sense of self-worth that lasts long after you return home. Traveling in a group that’s “got your back” is empowering, helping you develop inner strength and a sense of agency.3. Creating Joyful, Lasting Memories Perhaps one of the greatest joys of traveling with other sapphic women is the opportunity to create memories that celebrate who you are. Whether you’re exploring a destination known for its LGBTQ+ history or simply sharing laughter over a meal in a cozy café, these shared experiences create moments of true joy. These memories not only enrich the travel experience but also offer long-term mental health benefits.The joy of traveling with those who understand and celebrate you for who you are fosters a deep sense of belonging. This is a reminder that you are part of a larger, loving community. Upon returning home, these memories and friendships continue to uplift you, adding a new layer of happiness and mental wellness to everyday life.<figure id="figure-4a3vfjh4ypm3d8okjy"><img id="4a3vfjh4ypm3d8okjy" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1eTeDNYHj7iVEZn46GYdNO5rDINyza5bMYZLUt66JKFB5hMEdyouXlGbFzl3YHLS.jpg" alt="Multicultural Business Professionals Celebrating Success" title="Multicultural Business Professionals Celebrating Success" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/1eTeDNYHj7iVEZn46GYdNO5rDINyza5bMYZLUt66JKFB5hMEdyouXlGbFzl3YHLS.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure> Traveling with other sapphic women isn’t just about seeing new places; it’s a journey into self-acceptance, empowerment, and shared joy. From feeling seen and understood to embracing growth and creating lasting connections, these experiences leave a profound impact on both mental health and happiness. By exploring the world in a space where you’re free to be yourself, you open yourself up to unforgettable adventures and joy that truly last.Club LILLES is heading to Greece this September!<figure id="figure-y8ye4dfh4m3d8rvd0"><img id="y8ye4dfh4m3d8rvd0" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/13LUBxLJPIO3OE0r5jK7VICivjqJ94phFmMjqYf2IiEv0ltHWgMq1NNrBCExlUGs.png" alt="Excited diverse employees eating pizza during break in office together" title="Excited diverse employees eating pizza during break in office together" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/13LUBxLJPIO3OE0r5jK7VICivjqJ94phFmMjqYf2IiEv0ltHWgMq1NNrBCExlUGs.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Join us this September as Club Lilles heads to Greece for a journey of connection, joy, and unforgettable experiences with fellow sapphic women! <a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE!</a>

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