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Have you ever heard the terms Golden Retriever Masc and Black Cat Femme and wondered what they mean? Well, you’re in the right place! Today, I want to break down what these playful yet powerful labels represent, and how they fit into a fun contest we’re running to support animal rescue.What Do Golden Retriever Masc and Black Cat Femme Mean?In our LGBTQ+ community, labels often serve as a way to describe our personalities, energy, and how we express ourselves. The terms Golden Retriever Masc and Black Cat Femme are part of a growing slang used to describe certain traits or vibes that are both endearing and empowering.<ul><li>Golden Retriever Masc: This is a term used to describe a masculine-presenting lesbian or person who identifies as masculine. But it’s not just about looks; it’s about embodying the spirit of a golden retriever dog—loyal, affectionate, energetic, and playful. Think of the person who’s always up for an adventure, who’s fiercely supportive of their loved ones, and who exudes warmth and energy like a golden retriever greeting you at the door. This term is often used in a loving, lighthearted way to capture that loyal and lively vibe.</li><li>Black Cat Femme: Now, this is where the vibe shifts a bit! Black Cat Femme refers to a feminine-presenting lesbian or person who identifies as femme, with qualities that reflect the mysterious, independent, and sleek nature of a black cat. There’s a certain allure and strength that comes with this persona—someone who’s independent, confident, and knows how to keep things intriguing. They’re not afraid to go their own way, and like a black cat, there’s a subtle mystique to their energy that draws people in.</li></ul>Both of these terms tap into the essence of who we are, but also how we connect with those around us. They’re playful, they’re meaningful, and they allow us to express parts of ourselves that go beyond just labels or categories.How Do These Terms Tie Into Our Animal Rescue Contest?Now that you know what these terms mean, here’s where things get really exciting! We’re running a Golden Retriever Masc vs. Black Cat Femme contest to raise money for animal rescue organizations, and we want you to be a part of it.<figure id="figure-k7oe67ydhim7c7k97y"><img id="k7oe67ydhim7c7k97y" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/32ztj6qzxLc47moRu9AuFSICpWDM2OjTBuHO37A52oBHG2FXIpMC8NpDLalQjtSZ.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="25%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/32ztj6qzxLc47moRu9AuFSICpWDM2OjTBuHO37A52oBHG2FXIpMC8NpDLalQjtSZ.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;"></figure>Here’s How You Can Get Involved:We’ve partnered with Wind Land Sky to bring you exclusive, limited-edition tees that represent these two beloved animal spirits:Golden Retriever Shirt: <a data-mce-href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/" href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/">Supports Heidi’s Legacy Dog Rescue</a> Black Cat Shirt: <a data-mce-href="https://rocemergencyvet.my.site.com/" href="https://rocemergencyvet.my.site.com/">Supports Rochester Emergency Vet Services</a> You can show your team spirit by choosing your shirt, and the best part is that 10% of the proceeds from each shirt goes directly to helping animals in need!How to Participate:Pick your team and grab your shirt: <a data-mce-href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/WindLandSky" href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/WindLandSky">Shop Here!</a><a data-mce-href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/WindLandSky" href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/WindLandSky"> </a>Use your team’s code at checkout for free U.S. shipping and to cast your vote:LILLESLOVEDOGS for Team Golden Retriever LILLESLOVECATS for Team Black Cat Share the love with your fellow animal lovers—every purchase helps save lives!<figure id="figure-lx8fg7ak4om7c7ojl7"><img id="lx8fg7ak4om7c7ojl7" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/17ZtomLhcYcVUyuLKIWZAGHXjPvQ4Zldspd7U1JTeEv6Tsqy6lCewgpU1QoMu6sw.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 95%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="95%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/17ZtomLhcYcVUyuLKIWZAGHXjPvQ4Zldspd7U1JTeEv6Tsqy6lCewgpU1QoMu6sw.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 95%;"></figure> The Competition:The team with the most shirt sales by March 15, 2025, wins an extra donation from Wind Land Sky &amp; Club LILLES to their rescue organization. So, whether you’re all about that Golden Retriever Masc energy or more of a Black Cat Femme at heart, you’re helping make a real difference in the lives of animals in need.So, which side are you on? The loyal, energetic golden retriever or the sleek, mysterious black cat? Either way, you’re showing your love for animals and supporting a great cause!Let’s have some fun, rep our teams, and make a positive impact together. We can’t wait to see which side wins!

Golden Retriever Masc vs. Black Cat Femme: What Do They Mean and Which Team Are You On?

The search for love can feel like an unpredictable journey—especially when it seems like there are limited spaces where we can truly be ourselves. But what if the world of online dating could offer us something new and exciting, especially for those of us in the Sapphic community?Enter virtual speed dating—a fun, engaging way to meet new people, build connections, and explore the possibility of finding love. For those seeking genuine, heart-centered relationships, virtual speed dating offers a unique opportunity to bypass the awkwardness of traditional dating and create meaningful connections in a welcoming, low-pressure setting.<figure id="figure-rj7n5xdboim73oyj5n"><img id="rj7n5xdboim73oyj5n" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1537782057/photo/speed-dating-written-white-lightbox-before-pink-wall.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=mzEE2rXvKmUmzQAcJSwuiSYp6ktmfER36pEc5T3C_Hk=" alt="Speed Dating Written White Lightbox Before Pink Wall" title="Speed Dating Written White Lightbox Before Pink Wall" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1537782057/photo/speed-dating-written-white-lightbox-before-pink-wall.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=mzEE2rXvKmUmzQAcJSwuiSYp6ktmfER36pEc5T3C_Hk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Why Virtual Speed Dating Works In a digital age where almost everything can be done online, it only makes sense that dating has also gone virtual. With virtual speed dating, you're not limited by geography or awkward face-to-face first impressions. You can connect with people from all walks of life and from different corners of the world—all while being in the comfort of your own space. This is especially beneficial for those in the Sapphic community who may not have easy access to local events or groups.The beauty of virtual speed dating lies in its simplicity. The format usually involves brief, timed conversations with multiple potential matches. Each conversation is short enough to keep things light and fun, but long enough to determine if there’s a spark or shared connection. You can talk about everything from hobbies to deeper life values, and if it’s a good fit, you can exchange contact info to continue the conversation after the event.<figure id="figure-kdqdut72m6m73ozdjx"><img id="kdqdut72m6m73ozdjx" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2172620883/photo/loving-lesbian-couple-sharing-an-intimate-moment-at-home.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=a6EupdQkJcedN22qOyoi6urS3-9Ira4k8MVEJnO-PNU=" alt="Loving lesbian couple sharing an intimate moment at home" title="Loving lesbian couple sharing an intimate moment at home" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2172620883/photo/loving-lesbian-couple-sharing-an-intimate-moment-at-home.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=a6EupdQkJcedN22qOyoi6urS3-9Ira4k8MVEJnO-PNU=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>How It Supports Sapphic Love For those of us who identify as Sapphic, dating can come with its own set of challenges. Not everyone understands the nuances of our identities, and finding people who truly get us can feel like a daunting task. Virtual speed dating creates a safe, inclusive space for us to meet others who share our experiences and values.In addition, it allows us to skip the often uncomfortable small talk and dive into meaningful conversations sooner. Instead of spending weeks swiping through profiles or wondering if you’re going to hit it off with someone, virtual speed dating gives you the chance to find out in just a few minutes if there’s potential.One of the most exciting aspects of virtual speed dating is that it gives you the chance to connect with people from all over, meaning that love isn’t bound by your immediate social circle or location. You’re open to meeting like-minded individuals who might just be the perfect match for you.<figure id="figure-3fhs8tq3wwm73p0yin"><img id="3fhs8tq3wwm73p0yin" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1175636475/photo/seniors-at-a-train-station.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=WkevxPaim2-I7YRhcBMUl8IKMz7DYrDK8Uc-5_t_0Ag=" alt="Seniors at a Train station" title="Seniors at a Train station" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1175636475/photo/seniors-at-a-train-station.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=WkevxPaim2-I7YRhcBMUl8IKMz7DYrDK8Uc-5_t_0Ag=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>It’s More Than Just Dating Of course, virtual speed dating isn’t only about romance. It’s also an opportunity to build new friendships, share experiences, and create a sense of belonging. For many in the Sapphic community, finding friends who understand their journey is just as important as finding romantic love.In these spaces, you can meet people who share your interests, values, and passions, and build a strong foundation of mutual respect and support. Whether you’re looking for a soulmate, a friend, or simply a meaningful conversation, virtual speed dating offers a wonderful platform for making authentic connections.<figure id="figure-7xm6wa7n6rm73p1rhg"><img id="7xm6wa7n6rm73p1rhg" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/349AQppcVRIuBJoQi05AK9Xu645BriPCBcP4uU5U6yisyYLM70M7QS2eiJmzEJCr.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/349AQppcVRIuBJoQi05AK9Xu645BriPCBcP4uU5U6yisyYLM70M7QS2eiJmzEJCr.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Ready to Give It a Try? If you’re intrigued by the idea of meeting someone special, or just want to have a fun, lighthearted evening of conversation, we’ve got just the event for you.<a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator">Join us on February 26th</a> at 8:00 PM EST for the<a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator"> Club Lilles Virtual Speed Dating Event</a>! It’s a relaxed, no-pressure event designed to connect members of our vibrant Sapphic community. Whether you’re hoping to meet your soulmate, find a new friend, or simply enjoy some delightful conversation, this event is your perfect opportunity to expand your circle and make meaningful connections.Don’t miss out on an evening filled with laughter, love, and great conversations!<a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator" data-mce-selected="inline-boundary">CLICK HERE TO SECURE YOUR SPOT!</a>

Finding Sapphic Love Through Virtual Speed Dating: A New Way to Connect

African American girl is working at home with LGBTQ rainbow flag in her table for coming out of closet and pride month celebration to promote sexual diversity and equality in homosexual orientation

Coming out can be one of the most liberating yet challenging moments in your life, especially when it involves telling your spouse. If you’re in a place where you’re considering sharing your truth but feel paralyzed by fear, you’re not alone. Many of us in the <a data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lilles">Club LILLES</a> community have stood exactly where you are now—scared, uncertain, and questioning how to move forward. Let’s unpack this together and find a path that honors both your truth and your relationship.Acknowledge Your Fear Fear often stems from the unknown: How will they react? Will this hurt them? What happens next? These questions are valid, and it’s okay to feel scared. Start by acknowledging that fear without judgment. Journaling or talking to a trusted friend, coach, or therapist can help you explore what’s behind those emotions and what you’re truly afraid of.Get Clear on Your Why Coming out to your spouse is deeply personal, and clarity can be grounding. Ask yourself:&nbsp; Why do I want to share this now? Is it because I need to live authentically? Because keeping this secret feels like a burden? Understanding your "why" will help guide you through the conversation.Prepare with Compassion Consider how you’d like to approach this conversation. Preparation can ease some of the anxiety. Think about:Timing: Choose a moment when you can have uninterrupted time to talk. Setting: A calm, private space where both of you can feel comfortable. Words: Practice what you want to say. You might even write it down to organize your thoughts. Remember, the goal isn’t to have a perfect conversation—it’s to communicate with honesty and kindness.Anticipate Their Perspective Your spouse may have a range of emotions: confusion, sadness, anger, or even relief if they’ve sensed something was off. While you can’t control their reaction, you can approach the conversation with empathy. Acknowledge the impact this revelation might have on them, while also holding space for your own truth.Seek Support You don’t have to do this alone. Reach out to supportive friends, <a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/">coach</a>, a therapist, or even the Club LILLES community. Sharing your experience with others who understand can be incredibly empowering and healing.Embrace Patience Coming out is a process, not a one-time event. Both you and your spouse will need time to process what this means for your lives. Be patient with yourself and with them. There’s no “right” way this has to unfold.Honor Yourself Ultimately, your journey is about stepping into your truth and living authentically. That takes tremendous courage. No matter how the conversation goes, remember that you are worthy of love, respect, and a life that reflects who you truly are.You’re Not Alone The Club LILLES community was built to be a safe space for moments exactly like this. Whether you’re looking for advice, support, or just a listening ear, we’re here for you. Coming out is a deeply personal act, but it doesn’t have to be a lonely one.If you’ve been through this experience, what advice would you share with someone preparing to come out to their spouse? Drop your insights in the comments—let’s keep this conversation going and support one another every step of the way.You’ve got this.&nbsp;

Coming Out to Your Spouse: Facing Fear with Courage and Compassion

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There’s something magical about feeling like you’ve found your people. A space where you can show up as your whole self—unfiltered, unapologetic, and fully accepted. But for many of us, finding that sense of belonging doesn’t always come easily. Whether you’re starting fresh after a big life transition, stepping into your authentic self, or just realizing you’ve outgrown old circles, it can feel overwhelming to search for connection in a world that often feels so disconnected.Here’s the good news: you’re not alone, and there’s a community out there waiting for you. Let’s explore some ways you can take steps to find your people and feel that deep sense of belonging.<figure id="figure-ruc1eak0hm56w3o53"><img id="ruc1eak0hm56w3o53" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/251H3yXevNDJbyPW678uNzOZZwkzm8cC2LaZuyY3BbvcBn17fHQrmt3YaqsnUi5s.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/251H3yXevNDJbyPW678uNzOZZwkzm8cC2LaZuyY3BbvcBn17fHQrmt3YaqsnUi5s.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>1. Start with Self-Discovery Before finding your community, it’s essential to know what makes you you. Reflect on your values, passions, and the type of connections you’re craving. Are you seeking support for a specific part of your journey? A shared hobby? A group that understands your unique story?When you’re clear on what you’re looking for, it becomes easier to spot the spaces that align with your heart.2. Be Open to Vulnerability It’s not always easy to put yourself out there, especially if you’ve experienced rejection or judgment in the past. But meaningful connection often starts with vulnerability. Share your story. Show up authentically. People are drawn to realness, and when you’re brave enough to be yourself, you’ll naturally attract those who resonate with you.3. Seek Out Aligned Spaces Sometimes, finding your community means looking beyond what’s immediately familiar. Explore local meetups, online groups, and community organizations that align with your values and interests. For LGBTQ+ women over 55, a space like Club LILLES offers the perfect blend of connection, support, and personal growth.Our community isn’t just a place to meet people—it’s a space to thrive, learn, and feel understood. Whether you’re navigating new beginnings or simply craving meaningful friendships, Club LILLES was created for moments just like this.4. Embrace the Power of Small Steps Sometimes, finding belonging starts with a single conversation. Attend a new event. Send a message to someone whose story resonates with you. Join a discussion that speaks to your heart. Each small step builds momentum, and over time, those small steps lead to the connection you’ve been seeking.5. Prioritize Consistency Building relationships takes time. Show up consistently, even when it feels awkward or uncomfortable. Trust grows when we share experiences, celebrate wins, and navigate challenges together. The more you invest in a community, the more you’ll feel a part of it.6. Give Before You Expect to Receive One of the best ways to cultivate belonging is to contribute. Offer support. Share your wisdom. Cheer others on. When you show up for others, you create a ripple effect of kindness that comes back tenfold.The Club LILLES Difference If you’ve been searching for a community that not only understands but celebrates you, consider this your invitation to join Club LILLES. Our group is more than just a gathering place—it’s a thriving, growth-minded community where connection and empowerment go hand in hand.From meaningful conversations to resources that inspire personal growth, Club LILLES is designed for women who are ready to embrace this chapter of their lives fully. We believe in raising the standard for what it means to be part of a supportive, inclusive community—and we’d love for you to be a part of it.You Belong Here Remember, finding your community and sense of belonging is a journey, not a race. Be patient with yourself, trust the process, and stay open to the connections that come your way.And if you’re ready to step into a space where love, acceptance, and growth are at the heart of everything we do, we’re here for you. Club LILLES isn’t just a community—it’s a home.We can’t wait to welcome you.Ready to join the conversation? Connect with us today and discover what it means to truly belong. <a data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164">CLICK HERE!</a>

How to Find Your Community and Sense of Belonging

Emerald Lake with wooden cottage and snowman in falling snow at Yoho national park, Canada

<figure id="figure-sek9qyng7fm4kdf2bw"><img id="sek9qyng7fm4kdf2bw" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1884430499/photo/emerald-lake-with-wooden-cottage-and-snowman-in-falling-snow-at-yoho-national-park-canada.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-fe1xqtDRWf-kCKeNsKYOkSkWE5qQ1HXZSmo2QRwZfY=" alt="Emerald Lake with wooden cottage and snowman in falling snow at Yoho national park, Canada" title="Emerald Lake with wooden cottage and snowman in falling snow at Yoho national park, Canada" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1884430499/photo/emerald-lake-with-wooden-cottage-and-snowman-in-falling-snow-at-yoho-national-park-canada.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=-fe1xqtDRWf-kCKeNsKYOkSkWE5qQ1HXZSmo2QRwZfY=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Ideas for Reaching Out and Making New Connections The holiday season can be a beautiful time of celebration and warmth, but for many of us in Club LILLES, it can also bring feelings of loneliness or isolation. Whether you’re navigating this season newly out, redefining traditions, or simply seeking deeper connections, you are not alone.Let’s explore some ways to foster connection this holiday season — with others, within our community, and most importantly, with ourselves.Host a Holiday Meetup or Virtual Chat If there’s no event on the calendar, create one! Invite Club LILLES members for a low-pressure coffee date, a casual potluck, or even a virtual chat. Sometimes, others are feeling the same way but are waiting for someone to take the first step.Idea: A “Holiday Stories Night” where everyone shares a favorite memory or tradition can foster connection and laughter.Reach Out to Someone New Take a moment to message someone in the group you haven’t connected with before. A simple, “Hey, I loved your post about [topic],” or “I’ve seen your name pop up — how are you doing this season?” can be the start of a meaningful conversation.You’d be surprised how many people are craving connection and just need that gentle invitation.Volunteer or Support a Cause Together The holidays are a wonderful time to give back, and volunteering is a fantastic way to meet people while making a difference. Partner with a Club LILLES member to support a cause close to your heart — like a local animal rescue, food bank, or community shelter.Shout-out: If you love animals, consider supporting <a data-mce-href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/" href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/">Heidi’s Legacy Dog Rescue</a> of Tampa — a cause that’s close to many of our hearts.Redefine Traditions and Make New Ones Sometimes old traditions no longer fit who we are or where we are in life. That’s okay. Give yourself permission to create new traditions that bring you joy. Invite a few friends from Club LILLES for a “Chosen Family” holiday dinner, a movie marathon, or a nature walk.Remember: Traditions are about meaning, not perfection. Whatever fills your heart is valid.Join the Conversation in Our Online Space Our online Club LILLES group is always open. Share a holiday wish, ask for support, or post something that makes you smile. Your voice matters, and you never know who might need to hear what you have to say.Try This: Post a “Holiday Connection Challenge” — invite members to comment with one thing they’re grateful for this season.Be Kind to Yourself Lastly, connection starts within. If the holidays feel overwhelming, take moments for self-care. Reflect, rest, and remind yourself that you are worthy of love and community.Know that in Club LILLES, you are seen, valued, and celebrated — just as you are.You Are Never Alone in Club LILLES This holiday season, let’s lean into the connections we have and open our hearts to new ones. We’re in this together, raising the standards for what it means to belong to a safe and thriving community.Wishing you connection, comfort, and joy — however you choose to celebrate.❤️ Your Club LILLES Community

Creating Connection During the Holidays

<figure id="figure-i2o59eomjmm4hddldl"><img id="i2o59eomjmm4hddldl" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1028749698/photo/the-acropolis-of-athens-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=Ewm_BQY187wC-uwlliibGTLkuJbRiYWOlhrUrhUks7k=" alt="The Acropolis of Athens, Greece" title="The Acropolis of Athens, Greece" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1028749698/photo/the-acropolis-of-athens-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=Ewm_BQY187wC-uwlliibGTLkuJbRiYWOlhrUrhUks7k=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Imagine standing on a rooftop in Athens, the Parthenon glowing golden under the fading light. Or picture yourself on a sun-drenched beach in Mykonos, where the sea shimmers in the distance as the sky explodes in hues of pink, gold, and lavender. But what makes these moments truly magical isn’t just the beauty of Greece — it’s the women standing beside you. Women who, just like you, crave connection, adventure, and a little magic in their lives.This is the power of traveling with a group of like-minded women like the ones in Club Lilles: sunsets become stories, and stories become the threads that weave lifelong friendships.<figure id="figure-98wl2ezhrm4hdeubn"><img id="98wl2ezhrm4hdeubn" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2ethstIPcM8IF8zlHMxyLoBFvIST5isKk4kZ3ZLMQEypL1ZW2KY3i1vCp0p06XWH.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 65%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="65%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2ethstIPcM8IF8zlHMxyLoBFvIST5isKk4kZ3ZLMQEypL1ZW2KY3i1vCp0p06XWH.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 65%;"></figure>More Than Just a Trip — It’s a Journey of Connection When you travel to Athens and Mykonos with a group of women who share your spirit of curiosity and growth, you’re not just sightseeing — you’re creating memories wrapped in laughter, vulnerability, and awe. The magic comes from knowing that the women around you are on a similar journey. You’re exploring new horizons, inside and out, together.It’s the kind of experience where:<ul><li>Conversations flow effortlessly — whether you’re exploring ancient ruins or sipping wine by the sea.</li><li>Moments of wonder are shared and understood deeply, like standing in front of the Acropolis or feeling the wind in your hair on a Mykonos boat ride.</li><li>Support surrounds you, whether you’re sharing a personal breakthrough or daring to try something new.</li></ul>Athens Sunsets and Stories: Bonding Over Timeless Beauty Athens is a city where history and modern life blend seamlessly. As the sun sets behind the Parthenon, the ancient marble glows softly, and time feels like it stands still. It’s in this golden light that stories are shared — your hopes, your challenges, your dreams.One woman might speak about her journey of self-discovery, and another might nod, eyes shimmering with understanding. These moments of openness, set against the timeless beauty of Athens, create a bond that’s hard to describe. In these quiet pauses, you realize: you’re not alone. Your experiences — your dreams, doubts, and triumphs — are seen and held in the circle of women around you.<figure id="figure-dv72e2ilhm4hdhnht"><img id="dv72e2ilhm4hdhnht" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/672664688/photo/a-view-of-mykonos-port-and-town-island-of-mykonos-cyclades-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=89WvIQdSmQClyf1lpXDZeZ1jyhllg-CrvomSGP7PcOw=" alt="A view of Mykonos port and town, island of Mykonos, Cyclades, Greece" title="A view of Mykonos port and town, island of Mykonos, Cyclades, Greece" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl selected" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/672664688/photo/a-view-of-mykonos-port-and-town-island-of-mykonos-cyclades-greece.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=89WvIQdSmQClyf1lpXDZeZ1jyhllg-CrvomSGP7PcOw=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-mce-selected="1"></figure>Mykonos Magic: Where Laughter and Adventure Flourish Mykonos, with its white-washed buildings, winding alleys, and crystal-clear waters, is a playground of joy and adventure. Picture this: a sun-drenched day on the beach with your new sisters, where laughter echoes over the waves. Or dancing together under the stars, feeling the freedom of letting go.There’s something extraordinary about having women by your side who are open to joy, spontaneity, and shared adventure. You’ll swap stories over fresh seafood dinners, explore hidden corners of the island, and maybe even take a leap — whether it’s diving into the Aegean Sea or stepping out of your comfort zone.In Mykonos, every sunset is a celebration, every story a chance to connect, and every shared experience a spark that deepens friendships.<figure id="figure-va59kms3cam4hdijx0"><img id="va59kms3cam4hdijx0" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/13LUBxLJPIO3OE0r5jK7VICivjqJ94phFmMjqYf2IiEv0ltHWgMq1NNrBCExlUGs.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl selected" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 60%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="60%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/13LUBxLJPIO3OE0r5jK7VICivjqJ94phFmMjqYf2IiEv0ltHWgMq1NNrBCExlUGs.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 60%;"></figure>Why This Trip is a Gift to Yourself Traveling to Athens and Mykonos with like-minded women is more than just a vacation; it’s a soul-nourishing journey. It’s a chance to connect with others who get it — the need for adventure, growth, and sisterhood. It’s a beautiful reminder that magic happens when women come together, support one another, and share life’s incredible moments.The sunsets will take your breath away, but the friendships you build along the way will stay in your heart forever.So, if you’ve been longing for more than just another trip, this is your invitation. Come experience the magic of Greece — where history, beauty, and sisterhood come together in unforgettable ways.&nbsp; <a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">Ready to join us in Athens and Mykonos?</a> Pack your bags, bring your stories, and get ready for sunsets filled with magic, laughter, and sisterhood.<a data-mce-href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025" href="https://trovatrip.com/trip/europe/greece/greece-with-jaime-messina-sep-2025">CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE!</a>

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