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If you’ve been craving connection, adventure, and queer joy under the stars—this is your moment.This summer, <a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/stargaze-festival-lesbiannightlife-sapphic-non-binary-trans-camping-tickets-1083104166719?aff=CLUBLILLES&amp;fbclid=IwY2xjawKYQANleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETF0MTN2TmJRTGc1Y0hGR2VSAR67ssmy-8DKASIBpqYuWMdT6MS-AhMH8-_0NJAuecXd3bPFpaP-DZXReQmYQg_aem_Hng6w4YMsyn6wprGyB0UNA" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/stargaze-festival-lesbiannightlife-sapphic-non-binary-trans-camping-tickets-1083104166719?aff=CLUBLILLES&amp;fbclid=IwY2xjawKYQANleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETF0MTN2TmJRTGc1Y0hGR2VSAR67ssmy-8DKASIBpqYuWMdT6MS-AhMH8-_0NJAuecXd3bPFpaP-DZXReQmYQg_aem_Hng6w4YMsyn6wprGyB0UNA">Stargaze Festival</a> is bringing together the sapphic, lesbian, non-binary, and trans community for an unforgettable weekend of camping, dancing, workshops, and togetherness. Whether you’re a seasoned camper or a first-timer who just wants to stargaze with new friends, this festival is designed to be a safe, welcoming, and affirming space for all of us to show up exactly as we are.<figure id="figure-coovn4ar7wmavbq6r2"><img id="coovn4ar7wmavbq6r2" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/6lb9ApfZKGDfSrpJaDzLxd63pKqv4yNDkSJiyw1kEpHZBP70iFefElHFLumyp4hU.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 20%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="20%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/6lb9ApfZKGDfSrpJaDzLxd63pKqv4yNDkSJiyw1kEpHZBP70iFefElHFLumyp4hU.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 20%;"></figure>And guess what? Club LILLES will have our very own section at Stargaze! That means you’ll have a built-in crew of supportive, growth-minded people who get what it’s like to come out later in life or navigate new chapters. It’s more than just camping—it’s community, connection, and the kind of belonging that makes you exhale.Think:<ul><li>Late-night campfire chats</li><li>Sunrise meditations</li><li>Sapphic DJs and dancing</li><li>Workshops on self-love, identity, and joy</li><li>And plenty of space to be your full self—no explanations needed.</li></ul>Whether you're coming solo or with friends, the Club LILLES section will be your home base. We’ll laugh, connect, share stories, and maybe even cry a little (in the best way). If you’ve ever wanted to meet people beyond the screen—this is your chance.🎟️ Tickets are on sale now! Use this link to register: <a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/stargaze-festival-lesbiannightlife-sapphic-non-binary-trans-camping-tickets-1083104166719?aff=CLUBLILLES&amp;fbclid=IwY2xjawKYQANleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETF0MTN2TmJRTGc1Y0hGR2VSAR67ssmy-8DKASIBpqYuWMdT6MS-AhMH8-_0NJAuecXd3bPFpaP-DZXReQmYQg_aem_Hng6w4YMsyn6wprGyB0UNA" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/stargaze-festival-lesbiannightlife-sapphic-non-binary-trans-camping-tickets-1083104166719?aff=CLUBLILLES&amp;fbclid=IwY2xjawKYQANleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETF0MTN2TmJRTGc1Y0hGR2VSAR67ssmy-8DKASIBpqYuWMdT6MS-AhMH8-_0NJAuecXd3bPFpaP-DZXReQmYQg_aem_Hng6w4YMsyn6wprGyB0UNA">Stargaze Festival Tickets – Club LILLES Affiliate Link</a>Let’s take this online magic and bring it to real life. See you under the stars.&nbsp; You won’t want to miss this.

Stargaze Festival: A Weekend of Queer Joy, Community & Campfires (with a Club LILLES Twist!)

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May is Mental Health Awareness Month—a time to break the stigma, open up conversations, and remind ourselves (and each other) that no one has to carry life’s weight alone. Whether you’re moving through anxiety, navigating life changes, or simply feeling the ache of loneliness, one of the most powerful things you can do for your mental well-being is surround yourself with people who get it.That’s why community matters.At <a data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164">Club LILLES</a>, we’ve seen firsthand how life-changing it can be to find your people—especially when you’ve come out later in life or are just beginning to reconnect with your authentic self. The power of sitting across a screen (or table) from someone who truly understands? It’s unmatched.<h3>So this May, we’re doing what we do best: creating connection.</h3> Our next <a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1358954071209?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1358954071209?aff=oddtdtcreator">Speed Friending event</a> is happening soon, and it’s your chance to meet new people in a low-pressure, heart-centered space. It’s not about small talk or surface-level stuff—it’s about forming real connections, making new friends, and being reminded that you belong.<figure id="figure-oi6her7awvmavatdvn"><img id="oi6her7awvmavatdvn" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/35PsMkKVy1AokMV2QMElIHX5jGWsmx68yWPLwB2mcUSVAOnaCis1ElWbMcyY0KjM.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/35PsMkKVy1AokMV2QMElIHX5jGWsmx68yWPLwB2mcUSVAOnaCis1ElWbMcyY0KjM.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure><h3>And because community care extends beyond just us—we’re also giving back.</h3> For both Mental Health Awareness Month (May) and Pride Month (June), we’ll be donating 10% of all proceeds from our <a data-mce-href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/windlandsky/?etsrc=sdt&amp;coupon=CLUBLILLES" href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/windlandsky/?etsrc=sdt&amp;coupon=CLUBLILLES">Club LILLES apparel store</a>—including our new Pride line—to <a data-mce-href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/" href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/">The Trevor Project.</a> They’re the leading organization providing crisis support and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ+ youth, offering 24/7 help through phone, text, and chat. Their work is life-saving—and when you shop with us, you’re helping fund that hope.<figure id="figure-0j0ik14g5pmavav3yl"><img id="0j0ik14g5pmavav3yl" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2dWphglNyLSF17LfgtSYn8an2kR5IjFs6JE1HEa4gFQUbK3Hdire0ta9ymlQ5T34.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2dWphglNyLSF17LfgtSYn8an2kR5IjFs6JE1HEa4gFQUbK3Hdire0ta9ymlQ5T34.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><a data-mce-href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/windlandsky/?etsrc=sdt&amp;coupon=CLUBLILLES" href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/windlandsky/?etsrc=sdt&amp;coupon=CLUBLILLES">SHOP HERE! </a>So whether you’re signing up for <a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1358954071209?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1358954071209?aff=oddtdtcreator">Speed Friending (click here to register)</a>, rocking our new Pride gear, or just reminding yourself that your mental health matters—you’re part of something bigger. Something supportive, powerful, and healing.You deserve that kind of community. We all do. Let’s keep showing up for each other. 💛

Mental Health, Meaningful Connection, and Showing Up for Each Other This May

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<figure id="figure-tmr97s6rmomafkkqth"><iframe id="tmr97s6rmomafkkqth" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/d8BpM2bBfzc" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowFullScreen="" data-url="https://youtube.com/shorts/d8BpM2bBfzc?si=0iOJn0xTXJ_BjSQj" data-corners="default" data-fullWidth="false"></iframe></figure>If you’re a woman who came out later in life, chances are you’ve had a long relationship with people-pleasing. You’re not alone.For many of us, the habit started early. We were taught to be nice. To be agreeable. To not rock the boat. Add in the internal conflict of hiding (or not even knowing) your sexuality, and suddenly people-pleasing becomes more than a habit—it becomes a way of surviving. Staying quiet, avoiding conflict, keeping others comfortable… it all helped us “belong,” even if it meant abandoning ourselves in the process.But here’s the truth: you don’t need to earn love or acceptance by shrinking yourself.One of the most powerful tools to start breaking the people-pleasing cycle? Pause before you respond.That’s it. Just a pause.When someone asks something of you, don’t rush to answer. Don’t fill the silence with a “sure,” “of course,” or “no problem.” Take a breath. Check in with your body. Ask yourself: Do I actually want to do this? Or am I afraid of what will happen if I say no?That one-second pause puts the power back in your hands. Over time, it builds trust with yourself. And self-trust is everything when you’re learning to live authentically—especially after years of putting everyone else’s comfort first.You’re allowed to take up space. To have preferences. To say no. And the people meant for you won’t disappear when you stop people-pleasing—they’ll finally see the real you.&nbsp; Want help unlearning people-pleasing patterns in your own life? Come hang with us in <a data-mce-href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1803540506644164">Club LILLES</a>—where we’re all about growth, community, and learning to own our truth unapologetically.

People-Pleasing and the Later-in-Life Lesbian: Why We Do It—and How to Stop

Let’s be honest—some days, it feels like the world is just too much. The political landscape is exhausting, the news cycle is relentless, and personal struggles can pile up in a way that makes it hard to catch your breath. It’s easy to get lost in the heaviness, to feel like there’s no room for joy when there’s so much to fight for. But here’s the truth: joy is not just a privilege—it’s a necessity. And for the queer community, joy is also an act of resistance.In a world that has often told us that who we are is wrong, joy is our way of saying, “I exist. I belong. And I will not let the weight of oppression, fear, or uncertainty steal my light.” Every time we laugh with our friends, dance in our kitchens, or experience the thrill of a first kiss, we are reclaiming something that was never meant to be taken from us in the first place: our right to happiness.<figure id="figure-jl2ssrt7pfm7w9ar6d"><img id="jl2ssrt7pfm7w9ar6d" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/36mDP93KzwVvqhEmIquQ3d42FSHoTY1oSjZRYYaUzed91r0cc2SaUyGmYULhLZmB.jpeg" alt="The best fans a band could want" title="The best fans a band could want" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/36mDP93KzwVvqhEmIquQ3d42FSHoTY1oSjZRYYaUzed91r0cc2SaUyGmYULhLZmB.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>The Power of Celebrating Small Wins Sometimes we think joy has to come in big, life-altering moments—a dream relationship, a perfect job, an epic vacation. But real joy? The kind that sustains us? It’s in the small wins. The everyday victories that remind us we’re still here, still showing up for ourselves, still choosing to move forward even when it’s hard.Maybe your small win is texting a friend when you feel lonely instead of isolating yourself. Maybe it’s finally setting a boundary that protects your peace. Maybe it’s just getting out of bed on a tough day, putting on your favorite hoodie, and making yourself a damn good cup of coffee. Those moments matter. They are proof that even in difficult times, we are still capable of choosing ourselves.<figure id="figure-1jdrdmq7nam7w9buyq"><img id="1jdrdmq7nam7w9buyq" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/30FJkpzT5OrtT7nZdNIsMZLDQvWXAzBtpOBAe0I39gES1cyzPiKexuhuq7PmEH8Y.jpeg" alt="Smiling woman carrying her dog at the park" title="Smiling woman carrying her dog at the park" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/30FJkpzT5OrtT7nZdNIsMZLDQvWXAzBtpOBAe0I39gES1cyzPiKexuhuq7PmEH8Y.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Joy as Resistance Sapphic joy is a radical thing. It’s easy to feel guilty for being happy when the world feels like it’s crumbling. But joy doesn’t mean ignoring what’s happening—it means refusing to let the hard things define us. It means finding moments of light despite the darkness. And that is powerful.So this is your reminder to embrace the small joys. Laugh loudly. Dance freely. Let yourself be happy, even when it feels like the world wants to take that from you. Because your joy, your laughter, your moments of light—they are just as important as the fight for a better world. And they will keep you going when the road gets tough.What’s a small win you’re celebrating today?&nbsp;

Sapphic Joy: Finding Moments of Light Even in Heavy Times

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Have you ever heard the terms Golden Retriever Masc and Black Cat Femme and wondered what they mean? Well, you’re in the right place! Today, I want to break down what these playful yet powerful labels represent, and how they fit into a fun contest we’re running to support animal rescue.What Do Golden Retriever Masc and Black Cat Femme Mean?In our LGBTQ+ community, labels often serve as a way to describe our personalities, energy, and how we express ourselves. The terms Golden Retriever Masc and Black Cat Femme are part of a growing slang used to describe certain traits or vibes that are both endearing and empowering.<ul><li>Golden Retriever Masc: This is a term used to describe a masculine-presenting lesbian or person who identifies as masculine. But it’s not just about looks; it’s about embodying the spirit of a golden retriever dog—loyal, affectionate, energetic, and playful. Think of the person who’s always up for an adventure, who’s fiercely supportive of their loved ones, and who exudes warmth and energy like a golden retriever greeting you at the door. This term is often used in a loving, lighthearted way to capture that loyal and lively vibe.</li><li>Black Cat Femme: Now, this is where the vibe shifts a bit! Black Cat Femme refers to a feminine-presenting lesbian or person who identifies as femme, with qualities that reflect the mysterious, independent, and sleek nature of a black cat. There’s a certain allure and strength that comes with this persona—someone who’s independent, confident, and knows how to keep things intriguing. They’re not afraid to go their own way, and like a black cat, there’s a subtle mystique to their energy that draws people in.</li></ul>Both of these terms tap into the essence of who we are, but also how we connect with those around us. They’re playful, they’re meaningful, and they allow us to express parts of ourselves that go beyond just labels or categories.How Do These Terms Tie Into Our Animal Rescue Contest?Now that you know what these terms mean, here’s where things get really exciting! We’re running a Golden Retriever Masc vs. Black Cat Femme contest to raise money for animal rescue organizations, and we want you to be a part of it.<figure id="figure-k7oe67ydhim7c7k97y"><img id="k7oe67ydhim7c7k97y" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/32ztj6qzxLc47moRu9AuFSICpWDM2OjTBuHO37A52oBHG2FXIpMC8NpDLalQjtSZ.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="25%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/32ztj6qzxLc47moRu9AuFSICpWDM2OjTBuHO37A52oBHG2FXIpMC8NpDLalQjtSZ.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 25%;"></figure>Here’s How You Can Get Involved:We’ve partnered with Wind Land Sky to bring you exclusive, limited-edition tees that represent these two beloved animal spirits:Golden Retriever Shirt: <a data-mce-href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/" href="https://www.heidislegacydogrescue.com/">Supports Heidi’s Legacy Dog Rescue</a> Black Cat Shirt: <a data-mce-href="https://rocemergencyvet.my.site.com/" href="https://rocemergencyvet.my.site.com/">Supports Rochester Emergency Vet Services</a> You can show your team spirit by choosing your shirt, and the best part is that 10% of the proceeds from each shirt goes directly to helping animals in need!How to Participate:Pick your team and grab your shirt: <a data-mce-href="https://windlandsky.etsy.com?coupon=CLUBLILLES" href="https://windlandsky.etsy.com?coupon=CLUBLILLES">Shop Here! </a>Use your team’s code at checkout for free U.S. shipping and to cast your vote:LILLESLOVEDOGS for Team Golden Retriever LILLESLOVECATS for Team Black Cat Share the love with your fellow animal lovers—every purchase helps save lives!<figure id="figure-lx8fg7ak4om7c7ojl7"><img id="lx8fg7ak4om7c7ojl7" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/17ZtomLhcYcVUyuLKIWZAGHXjPvQ4Zldspd7U1JTeEv6Tsqy6lCewgpU1QoMu6sw.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 95%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="95%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/17ZtomLhcYcVUyuLKIWZAGHXjPvQ4Zldspd7U1JTeEv6Tsqy6lCewgpU1QoMu6sw.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 95%;"></figure> The Competition:The team with the most shirt sales by March 15, 2025, wins an extra donation from Wind Land Sky &amp; Club LILLES to their rescue organization. So, whether you’re all about that Golden Retriever Masc energy or more of a Black Cat Femme at heart, you’re helping make a real difference in the lives of animals in need.So, which side are you on? The loyal, energetic golden retriever or the sleek, mysterious black cat? Either way, you’re showing your love for animals and supporting a great cause!Let’s have some fun, rep our teams, and make a positive impact together. We can’t wait to see which side wins!

Golden Retriever Masc vs. Black Cat Femme: What Do They Mean and Which Team Are You On?

The search for love can feel like an unpredictable journey—especially when it seems like there are limited spaces where we can truly be ourselves. But what if the world of online dating could offer us something new and exciting, especially for those of us in the Sapphic community?Enter virtual speed dating—a fun, engaging way to meet new people, build connections, and explore the possibility of finding love. For those seeking genuine, heart-centered relationships, virtual speed dating offers a unique opportunity to bypass the awkwardness of traditional dating and create meaningful connections in a welcoming, low-pressure setting.<figure id="figure-rj7n5xdboim73oyj5n"><img id="rj7n5xdboim73oyj5n" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/17YV9uWqBDLJGjY6ol84UdxG8GEu3fYOVcHcJ0sYKbTBfCSwLXBI1b5wolqFjC7F.jpeg" alt="Speed Dating Written White Lightbox Before Pink Wall" title="Speed Dating Written White Lightbox Before Pink Wall" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/17YV9uWqBDLJGjY6ol84UdxG8GEu3fYOVcHcJ0sYKbTBfCSwLXBI1b5wolqFjC7F.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Why Virtual Speed Dating Works In a digital age where almost everything can be done online, it only makes sense that dating has also gone virtual. With virtual speed dating, you're not limited by geography or awkward face-to-face first impressions. You can connect with people from all walks of life and from different corners of the world—all while being in the comfort of your own space. This is especially beneficial for those in the Sapphic community who may not have easy access to local events or groups.The beauty of virtual speed dating lies in its simplicity. The format usually involves brief, timed conversations with multiple potential matches. Each conversation is short enough to keep things light and fun, but long enough to determine if there’s a spark or shared connection. You can talk about everything from hobbies to deeper life values, and if it’s a good fit, you can exchange contact info to continue the conversation after the event.<figure id="figure-kdqdut72m6m73ozdjx"><img id="kdqdut72m6m73ozdjx" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/2eSKq0c2TsVSOFN34dUFC7MfsXUuEIh8Spq4HQGh9TiW6aZit5KRTM4dscOuYI57.jpeg" alt="Loving lesbian couple sharing an intimate moment at home" title="Loving lesbian couple sharing an intimate moment at home" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/2eSKq0c2TsVSOFN34dUFC7MfsXUuEIh8Spq4HQGh9TiW6aZit5KRTM4dscOuYI57.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>How It Supports Sapphic Love For those of us who identify as Sapphic, dating can come with its own set of challenges. Not everyone understands the nuances of our identities, and finding people who truly get us can feel like a daunting task. Virtual speed dating creates a safe, inclusive space for us to meet others who share our experiences and values.In addition, it allows us to skip the often uncomfortable small talk and dive into meaningful conversations sooner. Instead of spending weeks swiping through profiles or wondering if you’re going to hit it off with someone, virtual speed dating gives you the chance to find out in just a few minutes if there’s potential.One of the most exciting aspects of virtual speed dating is that it gives you the chance to connect with people from all over, meaning that love isn’t bound by your immediate social circle or location. You’re open to meeting like-minded individuals who might just be the perfect match for you.<figure id="figure-3fhs8tq3wwm73p0yin"><img id="3fhs8tq3wwm73p0yin" src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/384Tp6Ot8O88ydngC7KC2Lt1t0qIpB85TmvkgTDGogeJCQoTqrsM1UZtSWNo5pXH.jpeg" alt="Seniors at a Train station" title="Seniors at a Train station" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/getty/384Tp6Ot8O88ydngC7KC2Lt1t0qIpB85TmvkgTDGogeJCQoTqrsM1UZtSWNo5pXH.jpeg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>It’s More Than Just Dating Of course, virtual speed dating isn’t only about romance. It’s also an opportunity to build new friendships, share experiences, and create a sense of belonging. For many in the Sapphic community, finding friends who understand their journey is just as important as finding romantic love.In these spaces, you can meet people who share your interests, values, and passions, and build a strong foundation of mutual respect and support. Whether you’re looking for a soulmate, a friend, or simply a meaningful conversation, virtual speed dating offers a wonderful platform for making authentic connections.<figure id="figure-7xm6wa7n6rm73p1rhg"><img id="7xm6wa7n6rm73p1rhg" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/349AQppcVRIuBJoQi05AK9Xu645BriPCBcP4uU5U6yisyYLM70M7QS2eiJmzEJCr.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/349AQppcVRIuBJoQi05AK9Xu645BriPCBcP4uU5U6yisyYLM70M7QS2eiJmzEJCr.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Ready to Give It a Try? 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Whether you’re hoping to meet your soulmate, find a new friend, or simply enjoy some delightful conversation, this event is your perfect opportunity to expand your circle and make meaningful connections.Don’t miss out on an evening filled with laughter, love, and great conversations!<a data-mce-href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator" href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/club-lilles-virtual-speed-dating-tickets-1245262436469?aff=oddtdtcreator" data-mce-selected="inline-boundary">CLICK HERE TO SECURE YOUR SPOT!</a>

Finding Sapphic Love Through Virtual Speed Dating: A New Way to Connect

Club Lilles

Club LILLES is a community and travel company created for sapphic women and non-binary people who love women to build authentic friendships, meaningful connections, and unforgettable experiences. Originally founded for late-in-life lesbians, Club LILLES has grown into an inclusive space for women—primarily ages 35 and up—who are looking for genuine community beyond dating.

Through local events, social gatherings, workshops, weekend getaways, and international group travel, Club LILLES helps members step outside their comfort zones, create lasting friendships, and experience life alongside people who truly understand them. Whether someone is newly out, has recently moved, is navigating a new chapter, or simply wants to expand their circle, Club LILLES provides a welcoming environment where they can show up exactly as they are.

At its core, Club LILLES believes that no one should have to wait for a partner to start living their life. The community encourages members to say yes to adventure, prioritize connection, and create a life they love now—not someday. More than a social club, Club LILLES is a place where strangers become lifelong friends and where belonging, authenticity, and shared experiences take center stage.

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